I was recently inspired by an Aspie mom's (for those who don't speak "spectrum" Aspie is short for someone with Asperger's, a cousin of Autism) point system for her daughter. We have had a basic chore chart for Bryce where he could earn stickers for doing his chores. When he earned enough stickers he got a certain amount of money. This worked well enough (when we remembered to do it) but he's not really into stickers to start with. He IS, however, a huge fan of numbers and math. So I created a much more involved chart listing all sorts of things for which he could earn points. Every time he gets 100 points he earns one dollar. Currently he is SUPER motivated as he wants Wipeout 3 for the Wii. He earned over 100 points the first day. He just kept going back to the list to see what he could do next to earn more points. Hopefully the newness will wear off just a bit, or we'll go broke! I'm a little worried that he will lose motivation after he accomplishes this first goal, but for now it's working well. The boys also want to go to Disneyland desperately, so we'll start saving for that next. (Although that will take WAY longer than saving for a Wii game) I made things that are more difficult for him or more important for us a higher value. Some things may seem odd (see: socks and sitting by Charlie) but he has obsessions and aversions we have to deal with, so this is one way to do that. So far, so good- we'll see how it goes!
Bryce’s Points
Before
School:
Make bed………………………………………………………………… 2 points
Put
breakfast dishes in the sink……………………………………. 2 points
Pack school
snack……………………………………………………………. 5 points
Get dressed…………………………………………………………………..
2 points
Tie shoes……………………………………………………………………
10 points
Brush teeth……………………………………………………………………..
2 points
Comb hair………………………………………………………………….
2 points
No arguing
with Mommy or Daddy before school…………………….. 8 points
At School:
Focus on
work and listen to Mrs. Linda and Mrs. Montgomery
Great Day…………………………….........…..
10 points
Good Day……………………………………………….
5 points
OK Day…………………………………………………..
2 points
After
School:
Play IXL,
Stretch Math or Ticket to Read……………………. 10 points
Do homework
without arguing or complaining……………………… 5 points
Play outside
for 10 minutes…………………………………………. 10 points
Play with
toys (not iPod, Wii or computer) for 20 minutes…… 25 points
Do a puzzle……………………………………………………..
15 points
Read a book
out loud to Mommy or Daddy…………………………. 15 points
Eat dinner
without complaining (no saying, I don’t like this).. 5 points
Put your
dishes in the sink…………………………………………… 2 points
Play a game
with Henry (Chutes and Ladders, Old Maid)…. 5 points
Put pajamas
on……………………………………… 2 points
Clean up
room before bed (put away clothes, toys, shoes)… 5 points
Any Day:
Take off
socks for 10 minutes………………………. 10 points
Go poop in
the toilet all by yourself…………………….. 50 points
Play with
toys………………………………………..30 points
Read a book…………………………………………
10 points
Scoop dog
poop………………………………….. 5 points
Empty the
trash………………………………….. 5 points
Practice
piano………………………………… 10 points
Sit next to
Charlie………………………………… 5 points
Study Master
Club verses………………………. 5 points
Exercise…………………………………………..
10 points
This is like a video game in real life. I can see coins popping up over his head (in his mind). I like it!!
ReplyDeleteHe's keeping a running tally in his head- not just daily, but in total! Of course. :)
DeleteI like this idea. We're on the token system currently, but Daniel also likes numbers. Daniel is 4-1/2 but I think he would also keep a running tally in his head. He does that with his tokens. He can count to 100, so this might work!
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